Two giraffes, taking long, languid strides with a seemingly synchronized grace, pause for a moment to stand side-by-side. It’s a Kodak Moment, to be sure.

But just as you whip out your camera, anxious to capture the scene…they begin swinging their necks at each other. And if the loud “thud” that emits as they strike each other with their heavy heads and necks is anything to go by --- it isn’t pretty.
This type of interaction typically occurs between two juvenile male (bulls) and is called “Necking”. Not to be confused with the human equivalent ;), Necking is actually a form of sparring between young bulls. An invitation to spar is usually extended when a bull of inferior or equal status rubs his head and neck on another bull, because bulls seldom perform this action otherwise. They then stand side-by-side in parallel or reverse parallel position and deliberately swing their necks at each other. “The blows are almost always delivered gently, in the tempo of a stately dance, there are sometimes long pauses, and when they stop sparring they are likely to browse side-by-side.” (Pratt and Anderson) There are certain key characteristics which distinguish Necking from Fighting.
1) The bulls usually hold their tails drawn forward between their hind legs.
2) They reduce the chance of injury by taking turns to swing at each other.
3) It is a contagious activity, and can prompt up to 3 other bulls to join in.
Here’s a short clip on Necking:
Most scientists also agree that Necking is involved in the establishment of a dominance hierarchy among male giraffes, because it allows the bulls to judge the relative strength of their peers in a fairly non-aggressive setting. However, Pratt and Anderson admitted they were forced abandon this idea when “repeated and detailed observation of the behavior of the participants did not provide any visible evidence of dominance or submission.”
Other scientists such as Coe have more radical views on Necking, based on the observation that males were often seen with unsheathed penises, and occasionally mounted one another while Necking. As such, Coe posited that Necking held sexual significance for bulls, and thus was a “sexuo-social bonding mechanism” for young males. However, Pratt and Anderson refuted this claim through their observation in 9 out of 16 events where a bull attempted to mount another with his penis unsheathed, they “never saw any indications ---e.g. behavioral, postural--- of submission in the bulls mounted.” They highlighted one instance where not only did the male being mounted not visibly react, he even went on browsing!
Pratt and Anderson’s final conclusion was that Necking suggested play more than fighting, and its main purpose was to serve as practice for Fighting when they matured into adults later on in life.
Here’s a clip on Fighting:
As you can see from the clip, Fighting between Giraffes is a far more vigorous and violent activity, where heavy blows are exchanged. It is considered relatively rare, but has been observed to occur more frequently in the presence of estrous (sexually receptive) females. As such, this behavior that has often been connected to competition with their peers for mates. However, Pratt and Anderson themselves only recorded 2 instances of Fighting, with one occurring in the absence of females.
Unlike Necking, Fighting does not involve any preliminary movements and does not develop with gradually increasing intensity from a sparring bout. The two bulls approach each other rapidly, “start slugging at each other with maximum force and, reckless of injury, deliver their blows as rapidly as possible and sometimes simultaneously.” When a bull is defeated, he runs away. As a result, injuries from Fighting are far more common as compared to Necking.
References:
Pratt, D.M., and V.H. Anderson. (1985). "Giraffe social behavior." Journal of Natural History
Social System of the Giraffe by Melissa Breedlove
The Giraffe in Its World by Craig Holdrege
Giraffe Behavior at Animal Corner